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"North Devon Cancer Care Counselling Service"

About: Cancer Services / Living With & Beyond Cancer (Fern Centre)

(as a service user),

I have been so fortunate to have a counsellor like jess beside me on my journey. When I was diagnosed with cancer and felt like no one understood me at all. Counselling with Jess has been life changing. To have a special connection with someone who is there for you to talk with who you can trust and confide in and to be able to share the most painful feelings of shock knowing you are terminally has been such a huge support to me. I was able to access counselling when life had suddenly sent me on a road I was not expecting to travel and I didn’t know where to turn. Having a counsellor alongside me has made massive difference knowing I have a person just for me, to talk to about my feelings and fear of what is happening to me. It is a space and time given to me that has made my life feel more worthwhile.

A counsellor in my opinion is one of the most important services I could have accessed and we are fortunate to have this opportunity on offer to us. It helped me to come out of the darkness that this experience had thrown on me and made me feel like everything had come to an end.

The combination of creative exercises we did and the relationship that we have built has helped me see the light at the end of the tunnel. Jess challenged me to see other perspectives and has given me comfort and hope and a view of the bigger picture. I no longer feel on my own and I can see why I am here and my purpose in life. Having counselling with Jess has been like scaffolding holding me up when I most needed it.

Thank you

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Response from Rhea Crighton, Lead Gynae Oncology Clinical Nurse Specialist (Northern Services), Cancer Services (Northern Services), Royal Devon University Healthcare NHS Foundation Trust 2 years ago
Rhea Crighton
Lead Gynae Oncology Clinical Nurse Specialist (Northern Services), Cancer Services (Northern Services),
Royal Devon University Healthcare NHS Foundation Trust
Submitted on 10/06/2021 at 09:32
Published on Care Opinion at 14:15


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Hi crystalgardedn,

Thank you so much for taking the time to provide such lovely feedback regarding your experience. I am so sorry that you have received a cancer diagnosis however I am glad that Jess could offer you support during this difficult time. It is wonderful to hear that you have had such a positive experience and I love your description of counselling as "scaffolding".

We are very lucky to have amazing counsellors who are able to provide such vital support to individuals and their loved ones. I hope you continue to have positive experiences at the Fern Centre and I would encourage you to access the other services provided, such as complementary therapies, if you haven't already.

Best wishes

Rhea

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