Dr Asif was brilliant. Very calming, understanding and empathetic, his wife had gone through something similar and it showed.
The nature of my stay was incredibly traumatic and I was having a panic attack about the general anaesthetic. I am aware this is silly to some people, but to me it is a real fear. When I told a nurse this, (one that hadn’t cared for me that night but had come in to take my obs and asked how I was feeling) they laughed and told me I sounded like their mum. This didn’t help me at all and I felt humiliated as well as all the other emotions of that day.
I was also told my partner could not come wait with me before the operation (this decision was thankfully reversed by the day staff). I repeatedly asked for something to help calm me down and was told no. Without consulting a doctor, just a flat refusal no. Which in turn led me to have a full panic attack right before surgery. It’s not something I have experienced before but I assume the fear of the GA plus the trauma of what we were going through came to a head. Thankfully once in the theatre the anaesthetist did give me something to calm me down and couldn’t understand why I had been refused considering how I had been throughout the day.
The nurse that cared for me after returning from surgery was fantastic. She was efficient, made sure my pain medication was given regularly and truly was the best person to have looking after me that night.
By the day staff, I was told my partner could not come back after the surgery as the “need for family support was not required after surgery” despite having just had our baby surgically removed.
I am a nurse myself and it’s opened my eyes to being an inpatient.
"Hospital stay - ectopic pregnancy surgical removal"
About: Lincoln County Hospital / Gynaecology Lincoln County Hospital Gynaecology LN2 5QY
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