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"Breastfeeding support for Every Mum"

About: Caithness General Hospital / Maternity care Highland Community Services / Midwives

(as a service user),

I had my daughter at the end of last year and planned to breast feed her due to the evidenced benefits to both baby and mum. I read the many leaflets and links provided by midwifes and watched the dvd provided but nothing prepared me for the difficulties we experienced following her birth. I fell ill during the end of my pregnancy and had a difficult recovery including separation from my newborn who Admitted to SCBU a few hours after her birth. My daughter lost 9.8% of birth weight on discharge home and we were simply told to feed every three hours. Feeling a bit deflated that I was failing my daughter we stopped and got formula on the way home as back up.

Our community midwife was fantastic and helped us with breast feeding and with advice re top ups with expressed milk. We had a slow weight gain but we got there, with the community midwife visiting initially daily and then reducing intensity once satisfied feeding was established. We were discharged 4 weeks after birth which I know is not the norm and I am so entirely grateful for the high level of support and care received from the Sutherland Midwife team. However, this care had to come to an end. I began to attend a breastfeeding support group out with my area, in the absence of one close to home, which is facilitated by an infant feeding support worker. The support my daughter and I receive from the group and particular of the NHS infant feeding support worker is tremendous and it is this support that enables me to breast feed.

Every mum should have access to the infant feeding support worker. From having fantastic - easy to access breast feeding support from the community midwife - to going solo with no follow on support was hard and many a time I felt I was failing my daughter and therefore planned to cease breastfeeding. I am so grateful for the wonderful formal support I have had in the community to help me breastfeed my daughter without this support I know this journey would have ended. I write this story to highlight the fantastic work that is out there but also plead that the NHS in this current financial climate recognise the valuable contribution infant feeding support workers make to families and invest in these fantastic roles.

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Response from Sarah Mcleod, Lead Midwife North and West, NHS Highland 5 years ago
Sarah Mcleod
Lead Midwife North and West,
NHS Highland
Submitted on 21/03/2019 at 15:48
Published on Care Opinion at 16:56


Dear Roxy10,

Many congratulations of the birth of your baby and thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience regarding breast feeding your baby so successfully with the help and support of your local Community Midwife and our Infant Support Team.

You clearly had a very stressful time prior to the birth of your daughter and in the days following. Not easy to be separated from your baby particularly as your daughter lost weight making you all the more anxious.

I will ensure that the Sutherland Community Midwives see your posting – it was wonderful to read how supportive you found your Midwife and that she was able to spend the time you needed in order to fully establishing breast feeding including be able to express. It is so vitally important that Midwives do give women all the time they need and just how it should be.

Being able to attend an Infant Feeding Support Group following on from your Midwife’s input was brilliant again just how it should be albeit it was out with your own area. The Infant Feeding Support Workers are indeed fantastic. I also will ensure your posting is shared with the Infant Feeding Support Team.

The Infant Feeding Support Team do amazing, hugely valuable work as you rightly say. Again I will ensure your posting is shared appropriately to highlight this.

Thank you once again for taking the time to post your experience on Care Opinion and wishing you and your family all the very best for the future.

If there is anything else my colleagues and I can help with please do not hesitate to contact me.

Warmest regards.

Sarah McLeod, Best Start Lead Midwife, NHS Highland

Email: sarah.mcleod2@nhs.net

Phone: 07827882371

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