"Had a bad birth"

When my lady partner was in labour,she pushed as hard as possible. The midwife kept telling her she wasn't doing it right. Refused to give her any pain killers. After 5.5 hours of pushing they got a doctor in to ask for their opinion. My partners muscle wasn't pushing our child out. Anyway after 30 mins of cutting and pulling the birth of our child was upon us. Didn't feel special midwife left out of the way. Then my daughter had meningitis because of all the pushing. Well done tarn hospital. avoid.