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"Pure kindness, understanding & care"

About: Royal Devon & Exeter Hospital (Wonford) / Gynaecology

(as the patient),

End of august 2023 I was ambulanced in & had a few days in Wynard Ward. I was frightened & alone as I assumed since being in a wheelchair made me immune to sudden curve balls! I have a neurological disorder that comes with a variety of symptoms & it’s exhausting explaining them as most doctors/health care providers don’t know or have the time to understand fully what’s going on.

Throughout my experience at Wynard and my subsequent treatment after I felt seen, understood and cared for regardless of how ‘complicated’ my physical symptoms can be, which includes my strong mental health triggers. I was terrified at the start and as I experienced their kindness & understanding I know it stopped me going into a dark spiral of giving up!

Their patience soothed my scared/trauma state which enabled me to have certain procedures done with minimal impact to my neurological symptoms eg seizures, body shut down etc. This lead ultimately being able to build strength & confidence within myself to show up for my operation with courage & a mindset of ‘I’ve got this’ ‘I am in good hands’.

I felt safe & heard which brought me back ‘online’ for when I felt poorly & gave me the best chance of healing within me & for future appointments/procedures.

They said a lot of times when I said my thankyous ‘it’s our job’! Yes but people can still be doing their job and be impatient, uncaring, dismissive etc. They were the opposite & I can’t thank them enough.

To maintain their attentiveness over an 8 month period & me seeing them regularly shows that it is who they are - kindhearted, patient, attentive, knowledgeable and incredibly special individuals - all this whilst doing a stressful busy job. 

I am so so grateful & wish them all the blessings in the world as they sure were all a blessing in mine.

‘They’ are: Michelle, Becky, Jackie & my surgeon/consultant Dr Knight. (You have my permission to share my story with them as I thinks it’s so important to let people know these chinks of light’. Thanks

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Response from Michelle Perry, Gynae ACP / Clinical Manager (Eastern Services), GOPD / Clinic 1 (Eastern Services), Royal Devon University Healthcare NHS Foundation Trust 12 months ago
Michelle Perry
Gynae ACP / Clinical Manager (Eastern Services), GOPD / Clinic 1 (Eastern Services),
Royal Devon University Healthcare NHS Foundation Trust
Submitted on 20/05/2024 at 13:04
Published on Care Opinion at 13:05


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Dear Wheels 77

Thank you for taking the time to share your experience across the Gynaecology service.

I am sorry to hear that how your health concerns can cause such wider reaching consequences and can only imagine the fear that this brings.

I understand how important it was to both your physical and psychological health that we 'got it right' for you and that how by going that 'extra mile' we were able to influence your long term recovery and have a positive outcome to your future.

Obviously some disabilities are unseen and therefore highlighting this in your email will help inform and confirm to us all how important that we don't lose sight of the importance of 'Listening to patients ' as they are the experts about their needs. With you permission I will share with the wider team and of course those named, how important that this is to the individual and how, by reflection on our actions that this can make a difference to the patients overall experience and journey whether that be short or long.

I do hope you continue to make a good recovery ands continue to remain with a positive outlook on life.

Best wishes

Michelle Perry

Advanced Clinical Practitioner Gynaecology.

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