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"Kind midwife"

About: Maternity care (Wards 47, 48 & 50) / Maternity Day Care

(as the patient),

I had my baby last year. My whole pregnancy, I met wonderful midwives and the one with me during my labour was amazing. Can't express how good and kind she was.

During my labour the doctor made me uncomfortable. I had a normal birth and I was trying my best but they kept saying to me that I needed to push hard - I was crying and saying that I was trying. That discouraged me and made me feel sad at such a special moment of my life and I almost gave up, feeling that I can't do this.

The midwife took over, held my hand and told me I know you're doing amazing. We are almost there. Can we try one more time. She was so kind, I wish the doctor was a little kind as well. They said those words with such a straight face, I would never forget that. I wish they hadn't been there so I could have had an amazing delivery time.

They ruined my happy moment by such a small action.

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Response from Gaynor Bird, Lead Midwife, Maternity, NHSGGC 10 months ago
Gaynor Bird
Lead Midwife, Maternity,
NHSGGC
Submitted on 23/06/2023 at 14:05
Published on Care Opinion at 14:05


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Dear Flora66,

Thank you for taking the time to tell us about your experience here at the Queen Elizabeth University Hospital Maternity Unit and congratulations on the birth of your baby.

It makes me incredibly proud of our team here to read how our wonderful midwives supported you with kindness during your birth. I am sorry that the doctor made you feel uncomfortable and I will certainly ensure that our medical team are aware of your story and how this has impacted on you.

As a team at QEUH Maternity, it is always our aim to provide safe, effective and person centred care in a kind and compassionate environment.

Best wishes to you and your family.

Gaynor

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