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"Doctor's disinterested in patients"

This is my second experience with Highlands House and despite being years later it was still a horrific experience. After waiting 10 months to be seen the Doctor whom I had an appointment to see was disinterested, rude, and made snarky remarks. When asked about my symptoms he seemed dismissive and reductive with what I had to say. He often went on tangents about what he thought I should do with my life after assumptions he had made off of the short conversation he had had with me.

Despite having a very obvious gender presentation, the doctor having my medical information and my title, he asked for my pronouns. I wouldn't take issue with this but he then proceeded to not get it correct until I pressed him on it.

When saying I experienced some discrimination due to my sexuality and gender identity, he thought it appropriate to make light of this.

A lady was shadowing with the Doctor, she was shy and mumbled and as she had a mask on I had little idea what she was saying. There was little structure which made it confusing to know who I was talking to and when. As I was place in-between them I was constantly having to turn back and fourth, which felt more like a police interrogation which is not ideal when a large part of the reason you are there stem from anxiety.

He had some fixation that people with Anxiety issues shouldn't be allowed to drive cars, and spoke for a long while on the DVLA rules and whether or not I would need to inform them. He spoke for a long time on this only to finish that that I didn't have the symptoms required in order to contact them.

The overall experience was frankly humiliating, I don't really know how we're in 2023 and people still can't treat people equally and with respect. I don't feel supported by the NHS when it comes to Mental Health and would recommend anyone who needs support to look elsewhere.

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Response from Highlands House 13 months ago
Highlands House
Submitted on 23/03/2023 at 15:11
Published on nhs.uk at 16:49


We are sorry to read that you are unhappy with the care you received, this is not what we would wish and we will do what we can to support you and improve your experience. Please contact our Patient Advice and Liaison Service (PALS) on 0800 783 9972 (East Kent) or 0800 587 6757 (West Kent and Medway) as they can help you with any concerns or queries you may have about your care.

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