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"Very helpful with communicating with our son"

About: Community Forensic Services / Criminal Justice Liaison and Diversion Service

(as a relative),

We were very happy with the Forensic Services and SALT.

They made time for us, we felt heard and never dismissed.

It identified better which communication problems our son struggles with, and how better to communicate with him, like giving processing time, shorter instructions. It was also helpful to get the very useful handouts about assertive communication. Plus advice on useful books and a social group we were not aware of . We tried out both, the group was not a good fit and the book we ordered had unrealistic scenarios, but it was nice we were given all this information.

It also helped that the therapist was a lovely, cheerful person that our son was mostly happy to engage with. She was also very accommodating as to fitting us in at times that suited us best and was happy to do a home visit because it was still an effort to get our son to attend.

Because our son could sell ice to eskimos, you are not aware of him having these problems with understanding and processing . Also when you have children with ASD, PDA ect. you fear to be seen as weak parents all the time, so you try to be stricter, impose more boundaries as you are told to do, but actually this makes things worse. With giving processing time it does make home life a lot better. 

There are still occasions where he lashes out for unknown reasons. Maybe more advice on possibly anger management or what other avenues to pursue would be helpful.

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Response from Peter Wright, Executive Director, Forensic Services, Nottinghamshire Healthcare NHS Foundation Trust 5 years ago
Peter Wright
Executive Director, Forensic Services,
Nottinghamshire Healthcare NHS Foundation Trust
Submitted on 15/08/2018 at 17:21
Published on Care Opinion on 16/08/2018 at 10:51


Thank you for this helpful feed back. I will discuss it with the head of the service in our next meeting.

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Response from Joanne Halstead, Service Manager, City Local Mental Health Teams, (LMHT) East, Central, North and South., Nottinghamshire Healthcare NHS Trust 5 years ago
Joanne Halstead
Service Manager, City Local Mental Health Teams, (LMHT) East, Central, North and South.,
Nottinghamshire Healthcare NHS Trust

Service Manager, Adult Mental Health City Community, Safeguarding Link Professional

Submitted on 21/08/2018 at 11:49
Published on Care Opinion at 12:52


Dear giraffekc93,

Thank you for detailed and helpful feedback, we are please as a service to have been able to help your family. I will ensure that the staff concerned are aware of your comments as they do make a big difference to us.

Anger management as a stand alone treatment is often quite difficult for services to access, but improved communication techniques can often help manage anger more appropriately. We can certainly bear in mind and report this need upwards if it is a gap in services.

I would like to wish you and your son all the best in future, and hope in the nicest possible sense that you would not be in need of our services again.

Best wishes

Joanne Halstead

Clinical Team Leader

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