I attended Pilgrim hospital recently for a growth scan. I have been through a lot in this pregnancy so far, including symptoms that mean I am in constant pain. I am also a nurse.
I left my scan almost in tears today. The sonographer was so fast and abrupt that I felt I didn't see my baby properly. Yes we all work under pressure but leaving a scan with a nice picture is a real boost for mum. I was jabbed for baby to move and when he did there was no effort to get a nice profile. it was very 'that will do. ' I was excited to be able to show my family and colleagues a picture of my baby - but left tearful, with a horrendous picture like something from a horror film and my name mispelt on it anyway so that's hardly a keepsake either!
I am a sister in the nhs and know how the small things make a big difference. All I expect is an extra 2 minutes effort so I could see my baby and take away a memento. Yes, it's about baby being healthy but it's also about mum not feeling she's just another walking bump with yet another baby to measure.
I still feel cheated and refuse to show anyone the pictures I was given. Was made to feel like cattle today.
Really upset by this as my other scans were special.
"Growth scan - antenatal"
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