Before I start may first say I appreciate how hard the nurses in ambulatory care work.
After seeing her GP my Mum was sent down to ambulatory car. She had a nasty chest infection and a delirium. My mum does have a history of cognitive impairment and does attend the memory clinic.
On that particular day she was much more disorientated than usual. I did ask 3 different members of staff if I could stay with her given her condition, I was asked if my mum had a diagnosis of dementia; again and again I explained she did not but was more disorientated.
However I was told I could not stay with her but could wait in waiting room, they would come for me when doctor was to speak with my mum. This did not happen, My mum was sent to x-ray unaccompanied and after her x-ray the technician told her that was her finished she went looking for the daughter she thought had abandoned her.
It had been 2 hours since she saw me but it had felt much longer to her. Staff then had to go looking for her when the porter came to get her from x-ray but found she was missing. I admit I was abrupt with the nurse returning with Mum who was returning her to the unit stating I did warn you all. and will it be ok for me to sit with her now.
I am nurse myself and I know what a challenging job it can be. In my area we actively encourage John's campaign to be used by relatives. I feel more education in this area is needed in ambulatory care.
That particular day was extremely busy and there were some seriously ill patients in amb. care. The last thing they needed was depleting staff by having to go find my mum. This incident could have been avoided by letting me stay with her and it would have saved her the worry and upset that I had abandoned her.
"Education in this area is needed in ambulatory care"
About: University Hospital Wishaw University Hospital Wishaw Wishaw ML2 0DP
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