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"Compassionate validation"

About: General Practices in Grampian

(as a parent/guardian),

Yesterday, my 19 year old daughter wanted me to sit in on her telephone consult about her mental health, which she has been struggling with for approx 18 months. My daughter, put off asking for help as she anticipated mis judgement . This could not have been further from the experience. Dr Bryce conveyed absolute compassion, care & made my quite vulnerable daughter feel validated,  as someone unwell genuinely needing help, that she could help and signpost her towards further support,where she could help herself. 

The consultation was late, I suspect as Dr Bryce gives patients longer than is scheduled, instead she appears to give them the time and space she needs to understand and then support. It suited my daughter to be on a telephone consult yesterday,  it felt less intimating than a face to face ownership of her mental health concerns. There has been so much criticism of gp services in & beyond the pandemic, I felt compelled to point out great care. I am so grateful that I can trust someone like Dr Bryce with my precious girl, when she is feeling so vulnerable. I believe she is in safe caring hands. 

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Response from Kirsten Dickson, Quality Improvement and Assurance Facilitator, Quality Improvement and Assurance Team, NHS Grampian 3 years ago
Kirsten Dickson
Quality Improvement and Assurance Facilitator, Quality Improvement and Assurance Team,
NHS Grampian
Submitted on 30/06/2022 at 18:10
Published on Care Opinion at 18:10


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Dear Person Centred Kat,

Thank you so much for getting in touch with you your daughters story. It brought a tear to my eye reading it – both because your daughter has been struggling and because of the compassion shown by Dr Bryce.

I work with the Quality Improvement & Assurance Team and have a role in making sure the feedback we receive reaches the correct teams. The GP practices aren’t able to access Care Opinion directly at the moment but I have shared this with Dr Bryce and the Practice Team at the surgery and once I hear back from them I will post on here to let you know.

In the meantime I hope your daughter continues to get the support she needs through what must be a difficult time for you both.

Take care,

Kirsten

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