I was due a gynae appointment to check out a few things following my smear. The previous day I had started my period - I obviously rang to see if I was still allowed to attend. The receptionist told me that of course I could, they would be able to clean the area to do what they needed to do.
When I got there the consultant asked me why I was there and I explained that from my smear I was referred so that a consultant could take a closer look. The consultant said (rather abruptly) that the referral came from my GP. I said I wasn’t sure what had happened with that as the last appointment I had was with my nurse doing my smear (not at the GP surgery).
We discussed a bit about how it was suspected that my cervix was an abnormal shape and then asked when my last period was. I said that I was currently on it and the consultant became slightly panicky and said that he would be unable to do the examination.
I explained that I had rung before coming to check that it was okay and I was told it was absolutely fine and to still attend. One of the nurses asked if we could just try flushing out and attempting to which the consultant said no definitely not. I got rather upset out of frustration for having wasted my whole morning coming to the hospital for no answers.
The consultant just kept talking over me saying my smear came back HPV negative and I am healthy, but it didn’t stop me from being disappointed and I felt that he was trying to reassure me but was shouting and I felt like I was causing such a fuss. I am not angry at the consultant as he followed the procedure but I just wish the communication would have been consistent so that I didn’t waste my whole morning (my only day off of the school holidays).
I also think it could have been clearer where I was meant to go for my outpatients appointment. I went to the main outpatients part of the hospital to be told that I would have to get down the road to the maternity building in the space of 4 minutes.
I would however like to praise the nurses with me during this time as they could see I was very anxious and going into panic. They took me to one side, brought me tea and a biscuit and told me to take as long as I need to feel calm.
"Upsetting experience at gynaecology outpatients"
About: Lincoln County Hospital / Gynaecology Lincoln County Hospital Gynaecology LN2 5QY
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