My mum has long term severe mental illness where she gets very psychotic stops taking her medication and ends up very very unwell in need of a safe place. Which means admission to hospital because there is no crisis team that will go to her in time. And these crisis houses here don't take anyone with psychosis.
She lives on her own and self neglects. We cant get near her when she is very paranoid and frankly we are sick to death of being dumped on for years and years by this Trust who have never had the workforce in place to support very unwell patients.
It is not our job to look after our mother as the crisis line worker told my brother. It is appalling that this Trust expect us to put our entire lives on hold to provide the 24 hr care they should be doing. If they went in to her before she got so unwell then she wouldn't end up barricaded in her home with police smashing the door down (as now) and still no mental health assessment. We as family don't have any break and we have to try and hold down jobs, pay mortgages and rents and have children to care for AND provide acute mental health crisis care 24 hrs a day until we cant get access. There was NO mental health services during the entire pandemic ( and please do not tell us otherwise when we know her community team haven't made contact since her last section ). We are sick of the excuses the complaints managers post . Everything from where sit is toxic and rotten and dangerous and we don't think for a moment that these crisis services and wards and sectioning teams care the slightest or they would have improved the quality of frontline staff and more importantly the managers. This has gone on or at least 10 yrs now..
2 of us are NHS nurses so we know what good care looks and sounds like and we know what dangerous decisions are. We concur with every criticism voiced by others on this site because at some point or another over time we as family or my mum as the patient has experienced the same.
We post here not because we believe for a minute they will change but to stand in support with other families and patients who have been left in this position.
"Appalling lack of crisis care"
About: Camden and Islington NHS Foundation Trust Camden and Islington NHS Foundation Trust London NW1 0PE
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