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"The best thing I ever did"

About: Inclusion Thurrock (Talking Therapies)

(as the patient),

I was full of anxiety and depression. I couldn’t see a way out and hit rock bottom with continual thoughts of ending my life.

Centred around my job and home life I let my worrying control me.

I never thought therapy was for me I never thought I would ever need help. I thought being a man I shouldn’t even need to ask for help. I thought I should be strong enough to handle anything. I got in such a muddle I had to phone the doctors and ask for help it was the best thing I ever did.

It was the start of feeling totally different, I learnt so much about my self whilst working with my therapist Rebecca. She showed me another way, she helped me to work through issues in my life and how a lot of my feelings were cyclical and sometimes I felt raw emotions, a real deep sense of sadness that I didn’t know where it came from she helped me to understand these and how to acknowledge these. Rebecca quite literally saved my life and gave me the tools to take control of my future.

I can’t thank Rebecca and the Thurrock inclusion service enough for all their help. I still have challenges to overcome but I am back on track and have the tools to manage my own anxiety and worries. Thankyou so much, I am smiling again

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Response from Ellie O'Shea, Inclusion Thurrock IAPT, Inclusion Thurrock NHS Talking Therapies, Inclusion Thurrock IAPT 2 years ago
Ellie O'Shea
Inclusion Thurrock IAPT, Inclusion Thurrock NHS Talking Therapies,
Inclusion Thurrock IAPT
Submitted on 24/11/2021 at 13:23
Published on Care Opinion at 15:09


Dear Controlled by anxiety,

Thank you for sharing your story and your experiences with Inclusion Thurrock. I am sorry to hear that you was having thoughts about ending your life but I am pleased that you felt able to reach out to us for help. This can be hard to do when you’re feeling so low, so well done for having the strength to do this. We can sometimes find our emotions take over and it can be difficult.

It's common for men to not feel able to reach out for support around their mental health as a result of societal pressure and gender norms. I hope that your experience has encouraged others who are feeling the same to reach out and get the help they need.

It sounds like you worked hard within your therapy sessions with Rebecca which has really paid off, you should be very proud of yourself. Rebecca will really appreciate your comments on how helpful you found your sessions.

Knowing that you have the tools to manage your anxiety and worries will hopefully have a positive impact on your life. Keep smiling and I wish you all the best,

Ellie O’Shea

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