"Admiral Nurse Service was a lifeline"

My Husband was admitted to West Cornwall Hospital early in May and subsequently diagnosed with dementia. He was confused and disorientate and because of Covid 19 I was unable to visit, see him, comfort him, reassure him and love him. Communication with the ward was patchy and at times conflicting information was given. I felt shut out and powerless to help my Husband. I had been self isolating and was at home totally alone trying to cope with this distressing situation.

I had a phone call from Caroline, an Admiral Nurse. This was a lifeline for me. I had someone who understood what I was going through. She was an advocate for us and was non judgmental in all the advice given. We had long phone conversations which supported me and I had someone who listened, advised and guided me through this distressing situation. She was able to action the supply of an iPad so I could communicate with my Husband at allotted times. She really was a consistent support when I didn’t know which way to turn. I am a retired healthcare professional but trying to deal with this situation and the emotional rollercoaster was extremely difficult.

This service was my lifeline and I cannot thank Caroline enough for her support. We nee more Admiral Nurses to cover Cornwall. I know of several couples who are struggling with a similar situation in the community who would benefit. My one thought would be that I wish I could have met Caroline in person. Covid prevented this but I will always be grateful for her kind input. I also know that if things deteriorate I can contact her again.   Thank you so much.