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"My lovely Granny"

About: Borders General Hospital / Accident & Emergency Borders General Hospital / Department of Medicine for Elderly Margaret Kerr Unit

(as a relative),

My granny was admitted to the BGH in October after having a fall. On our arrival my granny was in significant pain and distress. After waiting about 2 hours she was assessed by a nurse, she was finally seen by a doctor 5 hours after arrival, no pain relief was given or offered until she was seen by the doctor! 

She was later moved to ward 7 then moved again to ward 14 in the BGH. 

On two occasions when I phoned in the morning to see how my granny was I was given information about another patient, and I had to bring this to the attention of the staff nurse, she was very apologetic and I just put it down to understaffed and a very chaotic ward. 

But as the days went on my granny was in a considerable amount of pain in her hip, we would ask nursing staff for pain relief for her to be waiting 1 to 2 and sometimes 3 hours later  for the pain relief to be given. 

On one occasion I asked a nurse if they had a minute to talk, for them to put their hand up , as the stop signal and tell me to wait as they were busy!!!! Her clothes went missing, and no one knew where they were, never to be seen again!! 

My granny was diagnosed with bone cancer & lung cancer that day and that nurse made me feel belittled and as if I was wasting their time as they were far too busy to speak to me. 

My granny continued to be in excruciating pain and we continued to chase the nurses along with other family members for her to be given pain relief. I know there’s only so much you can give a patient but my granny was dying and was in severe pain. 

My granny was eventually moved to The Margaret Kerr Unit which was a relief to us as the care she received there was second to none. She was in no pain whatsoever and was very settled and her peaceful. 

My granny was admitted to the Margaret Kerr Unit on the early hours of Wednesday and sadly passed away on the Saturday. 

She was admitted on a Monday, diagnosed with cancer on the Friday and died on the Saturday a week later. 

The only saviour is that I know she wasn’t  in pain for her final 3 days due to the staff at the Margaret Kerr Unit  making her final days as pain free and peaceful as they could. 

Things definitely need to be addressed in ward 14 at the BGH as I wasn’t happy with the care my granny received.  And how some nurses treated family members, the ward is so under staffed and it’s mainly oap’s in that ward which are highly dependent on assistance. They are being made to wait for several hours on assistance. Myself and other family members often helped other patients as they waited too long for a nurse to come. 

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Response from Susan Cowe, Quality Improvement Facilitator - Person Centred Care, NHS Borders 4 years ago
Susan Cowe
Quality Improvement Facilitator - Person Centred Care,
NHS Borders
Submitted on 12/12/2019 at 13:49
Published on Care Opinion at 13:49


Dear Maple123,

Firstly, I would like to offer my condolences on the death of your Granny. Thank you for taking the time to tell us what happened at such a difficult time for you and your family. We do not want any patient or their relatives to have such an experience and our Associate Nursing Director, Sarah Horan, would like to contact you on Monday about this.

If you are happy to speak to Sarah could you provide your contact number to the Patient Experience Team on 01896 826719 or by email: patient.experience@borders.scot.nhs.uk.

Kind regards.

Susan

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Response from Sarah Horan, Director of Nursing, Midwifery & Allied Health Professionals, NHS Borders 4 years ago
Sarah Horan
Director of Nursing, Midwifery & Allied Health Professionals,
NHS Borders
Submitted on 29/12/2019 at 18:38
Published on Care Opinion at 18:46


Dear Maple 123

It was good to speak with you and I hope that you were able to relax as a family over Christmas after losing your much loved Granny

I wanted to update you after our discussion. I have asked Dr Howell to review your Grannys notes so we can look at the pain relief that she was prescribed and what we could have done better for her. Dr Howell has the notes now.

I have spoken to Audrey Bell the Clinical Nurse Manager for the ward area that your Granny was in prior to her transfer to the MKU and we have started the discussions about your concerns in relation to the communication and the nursing care that was not what we would expect and that caused upset to you and your family. As I said on the telephone I am truly sorry for this and was glad to hear that the care provided by other nurses was excellent.

As promised I will call you in the New Year to update you.

With all good wishes

Sarah

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