"Allowed to leave in very distressed and confused state"

My Partner was diagnosed with cancer from an intial CT scan and died 3 weeks later.

The care plan was awful, far too many processes & procedures which were unnecessary considering what seen at CT and subsequent MRI scans.

Consultant not seen until less than 48hrs pre dying. Extremely badly communicated meeting. Assumptions made, which were wrong. Allowed to leave BGH in very distressed and confused state.

Multi disciplinary meeting was advised to happen end of January. No feedback, no call, no information.

Only found out after, that this meeting did not happen until the day my partner died.

I have felt extremely let down by the BGH and left very distressed following events.

The local GP surgery were very good once back home and their district nursing kicked in.

There has been a review and I have met with Palliative Care consultant, which was good to discuss and stop this happening to anyone else in future. I have also completed a digital story as a training tool. I hope this is used as all staff need to realise how this felt.