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"It's worth remembering one day you could be lying in that bed!"

About: Dr Gray's Hospital / General Surgery

(as the patient),

I was discharged from ward 5. This was my second stay on ward 5 in 2 months. Although I'm very grateful for the attention I received especially my last visit after I became ill after a operation I feel the ward lacks true empathy with its patients. I felt very strongly that I was treated differently to some of the other patients as in my first stay I expressed concerns to the ward sister regarding poor medication management and that patients basic needs weren't being met.

This last visit has me on a 4 bedded ward with three elderly patients. One fell during the night but we're only aware that she had fallen as I summoned help. The staff seem to be lacking in presence on the wards with vulnerable adults. On several occasions two people who needed assistance to the toilet were left unattended in the W. C and walked themselves back to their beds. One occasion one of the ladies became distressed when her family were leaving no staff where seen from 18: 50 until 19. 45 as handover was extended ( told to me by a nurse). The ladies family couldn't see anyone on the ward so I sat with this patient until she calmed. I also helped her into bed because she was trying to do it herself and the nurses never answered my buzzer.

My partner visited outwith visiting times due to living over 30 miles away and working during the visiting times and rightly we had to go to the day room... other people seemed to have relatives in from 10am outwith the said times but nothing was said. Inconsistency! 

The things the ward do well is keeping their patients informed but there's a few things people need to remember ... it's work not a social gathering..I don't care where you went for supper last night whilst you chat over me in my bed....I have feelings, so when I say hello it would have been nice to be acknowledged and also to take on board patients are highly stressed in hospital and a little kindness goes along way. I do however appreciate it's a highly intense and busy ward but if you take on a job in care it's worth remembering one day you could be lying in that bed!

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Response from Linda Oldroyd, Chief Nurse for Surgery, NHS Grampian 8 years ago
Linda Oldroyd
Chief Nurse for Surgery,
NHS Grampian
Submitted on 17/02/2017 at 13:14
Published on Care Opinion at 14:21


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Dear Nicholson80

Thank you for taking time to post your story on Patient Opinion. At Dr Gray’s Hospital we very much appreciate any feedback we receive whether positive or negative and will always strive to use any criticism of our care to improve the experiences of patients and staff. In saying that I am extremely disappointed to hear that you felt that staff attitude towards you changed because of your earlier feedback about medication management. All staff should welcome all feedback and no feedback should impact on care delivery.

I understand your expressions of concern about staff presence. Ideally we would have staff based in each bay 24 hours per day but this is simply not practicable given the resources we have. We are doing a great deal of work on falls management. This is aimed at preventing falls and we have seen an overall reduction in the number of falls we have albeit this does not help the patient who fell on the night you describe.

Handover between shifts is an important part of our communications amongst staff but this should never mean that buzzers are not answered. Thank you for helping your fellow patient in the absence of a staff member.

We do have a consistent approach to visiting but it seems this is inconsistently applied by staff. We have moved to what we call person-centred visiting. This means that patients can see who they want when they want within the bounds of organisational constraints and maintaining the privacy and dignity of other patients. I am sorry therefore that this is not what you experienced.

I am glad that you were kept well informed throughout your stay in Ward 5. This is as it should be and is integral to the concept of person-centred care.

You are right that the pace of work can be intense but I see no excuse for talking over patients and I have to admit it is not the first time I have heard patients make comments about staff chatting about their social lives. I am not saying that this should never happen only that the patient should be included in the conversation.

I am very grateful for your feedback and I will ask the Senior Charge Nurse to share this with all the ward staff and to provide a response for Patient Opinion.

As you so very rightly point out, we all may lie in a hospital bed some day and none of us wish to be neglected or to feel invisible. Without question, being kind is part of being human, and kindness should not be underestimated in terms of the impact on the overall care experience. All staff would do well to take heed of this.

Kind regards

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