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"Late onset menopause"

About: General practices in Fife Victoria Hospital / Gynaecology Victoria Hospital / Rapid Cancer Diagnostic Service (RCDS)

(as the patient),

I have long standing COPD, underlying hypothyroidism and arthritis, recently joined by late onset Asthma for which I'm prescribed a selection of drugs and inhalers. My conditions are largely well managed. However, for many many months, possibly years, I had experienced repeated and increasingly debilitating sweats and fatigue, persistent weight gain, brain fog, loss of interest and generally feeling well below par.  Several blood tests to identify the cause proved unsuccessful. We'd even tried changing my thyroid replacement dosage and adding iron tablets, to no avail. The sweats kept on coming, several times a day, occasionally at night, to the extent that my specs would steam up and hair would be dripping wet. Constant fatigue, fuzzy head and lack of energy meant I'd dropped out of my twice weekly exercise classes, so essential in managing my arthritis and lung conditions. I'd even begun to avoid walking, shopping where I could park outside and many other small changes as I just had no energy. 

In desperation I contacted the surgery yet again, feeling like a broken record, but thankfully the very supportive GP Dr Dunn essentially said that's enough, something's going on and we need to get to the bottom of it so I want you to have a CT scan and thorough review, the best way is a referral to the Rapid Cancer Diagnosis Service.

After the initial shock at the word cancer, this quickly proved transformative. The lovely senior specialist nurse Lorna telephoned and reassured me that this was mainly to eliminate any form of cancer and, in the process, hopefully find out what was causing the problems. She took a full medical and social history and within a matter of days I received an X-ray followed by a neck to pelvis CT scan. This confirmed a pre-existing ovarian cyst as unchanged, and thankfully no cancer or other obvious problems. However, an extended chat with ACNS Katie suggested late onset menopause. Astonished that in my 70s, some 32 years after a hysterectomy had prompted my initial menopause, this is a recognised condition. Apparently evidence increasingly suggests that some ladies post-70 can develop menopausal symptoms as debilitating as ever.

I was then urgently referred to the hospital's menopause clinic (which I didn't even know existed!) and a telephone consultation with Consultant Gynaecologist Dr Monaghan. He agreed with the initial diagnosis and recommended a 6-month trial of Everel 25 patches.

Two weeks in and I'm already feeling better: the sweats have reduced in frequency and severity, my head is a little less foggy and I have a little more energy. The full impact may well take weeks or even months but I am already convinced that there is some improvement.

I cannot thank the four key health professionals enough for taking the initiative and time to listen, and to thoroughly consider all options. The speed and kindly manner with which the RCDS swung into action was incredible and immensely reassuring. Dr Dunn, Lorna, Katie and Dr Monaghan have, in a matter of a month, ruled out many things and identified what we hope will prove to be the root cause of my health problems, and a review appointment arranged in 6 months time. If this is indeed successful it is nothing short of life-changing, only possible due to the dedicated RCDS unit and its highly trained staff. 

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Response from Murdina MacDonald, Lead Cancer Nurse, Cancer Services, NHS Fife 5 hours ago
Murdina MacDonald
Lead Cancer Nurse, Cancer Services,
NHS Fife
Submitted on 06/11/2025 at 15:22
Published on Care Opinion at 15:22


Dear Grandma Skippy,

My name is Murdina MacDonald and I am the Lead professional Nurse for RCDS. Thank you for sharing your experience with us.Your account is one of quiet courage and persistence. Living with long-standing conditions like COPD, hypothyroidism, arthritis and now late-onset asthma is no small feat. That you’ve managed them with such grace speaks volumes about your resilience. But what you’ve described, the relentless sweats, fatigue, brain fog, and the slow erosion of your energy and joy is not just a medical puzzle; it’s a lived experience that affected every corner of your life.

It’s heartbreaking to hear how these symptoms gradually stole the rhythm of your days, the exercise classes that helped you breathe easier and move more freely, the simple pleasures of walking or shopping all slipping away under the weight of exhaustion and uncertainty. And yet, you kept seeking answers. You kept asking. That persistence is a quiet act of self-advocacy, and it matters.

Dr Dunn’s response to you that’s enough was not just clinical; it was human. It was someone seeing you, hearing you, and choosing to act. And what followed was a cascade of care that exemplifies the very best of our health service: Lorna’s reassuring voice, Katie’s insight, and Dr Monaghan’s thoughtful diagnosis. Each of them played a part in lifting the fog, not just medically but emotionally.

To discover that late-onset menopause could be the root cause decades after your hysterectomy is astonishing, and yet it reminds us how complex and evolving our bodies are. The fact that this was recognised, investigated, and treated with such speed and compassion is a testament to the value of our RCDS and our team within it.

Already, you’re feeling the first signs of relief. The sweats are easing, your mind is clearing, and energy is beginning to return. These are hopeful steps, and they matter. They are not just symptoms improving they are pieces of your life being restored.

Your gratitude to the team is palpable, and rightly so. But let’s not forget your role in this: your persistence, your honesty, your willingness to keep asking for help. That, too, is part of the healing.

Thank you for sharing this. It will resonate with many, and it reminds us all that behind every referral, every scan, every consultation, there is a person living, hoping, enduring. And sometimes, healing.

Warmest wishes,

Murdina

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Update posted by Grandma Skippy (the patient)

Dear Murdina

Thank you so much for your kind, thoughtful response which has genuinely taken my breath away. I had never considered my experience in this way.

I posted this purely to express my immense gratitude to the health professionals involved, who have given me a chance to recoup my strength. Whether this course of treatment will prove ultimately successful only time will tell, but to have been so patiently heard and so swiftly and compassionately treated has been simply marvellous. I was unaware of the RCDS but am gleefully telling everyone I know about it now!! and the wonderful interaction I have experienced.

But as you rightly say it all began with Dr Dunn's sympathetic appreciation of my situation and her willingness to proactively seek further investigation.

I wish you luck in sustaining and hopefully expanding the RCDS, its value to both patient and the broader health service I believe is incalculable. Keep up the great work and thank you again for taking the time to respond.

Fond regards to the team.

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