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"Good and bad around mum's end of life care"

About: Hull Royal Infirmary / Older people's healthcare Yorkshire Ambulance Service NHS Trust / Patient transport service (PTS)

(as a relative),

My mum was recently moved to ward 130E from ward 8 (Hull Royal) she was getting discharged the next day. She also had dementia, a nurse and porter turned up late on that night, not much empathy, she was told- you're moving because we need your bed.

She arrived,  the ward was in  darkness, lots of men patients about, she was just left there frightened. After an hour she shouted-  Is anybody there? It took a few shouts before someone came. They put Mum in bed and left her. They didn't put her CPAP machine on her, didn't check what her needs were. Mum was so scared throughout the night, appalling treatment of a Lady with dementia, who also couldn't walk as she was disabled. 

She was discharged next morning, brought home by Yorkshire Ambulance Transport (they were wonderful). Mum's dressing on her leg for cellulitis was held on by one side, leaving it flapping with green gunge coming out of the wound, why didn't they change the dressing!? It was still infected, which was confirmed by Community nurses. I called in for a home visit the same day!

It really was a shambles, just felt like a production line. The impression was -  discharged, put her in a dark dismal ward out of the way, don't worry about her needs whether she could walk or not, not caring she had dementia, and scared! Didn't put her Cpap machine on her (which was with her) Appalling treatment to a vulnerable woman in her 80's.

2 days later she was in hospital again, very ill, sats all over the place. Re-suss was wonderful and tried to help Mum in every way they could, but alas they could not do anything more for her. Mum was transferred to FAB ward. Absolutely every single member of staff, Doctors, nurses, etc was wonderful. Family members were in the room with Mum for hours, nurses brought us refreshments, aswell as taking care of Mum with kindness, empathy and professionalism. Our family will never forget how the staff treat Mum they went above and beyond in every way. Thank you fab ward. Mum died peacefully and with dignity 15 hours later of Bronco pneumonia. 

Please address some of these issues ward 130East Mum could have been one of your dearly loved relatives

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Response from Lesley Butterworth, Head of Nursing and Patient Experience, Yorkshire Ambulance Service NHS Trust last month
Lesley Butterworth
Head of Nursing and Patient Experience,
Yorkshire Ambulance Service NHS Trust
Submitted on 23/09/2025 at 16:17
Published on Care Opinion at 16:17


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Thank you for posting your comments.

I am pleased to hear of the positive impact our ambulance staff had on you when your Mum was discharged from hospital. I am sorry to hear that she was later readmitted and died. Please accept our condolences at this sad time.

It is always a pleasure to receive comments of appreciation for our staff and we would like to ensure they receive this feedback personally. If you have not already done so, we would be grateful if you could contact our Patient Relations team on the details below to enable us to trace your call and identify the staff involved so we may pass on your compliment to them.

Patient Relations

Yorkshire Ambulance Service

Springhill

Brindley Way

Wakefield 41 Business Park

Wakefield

WF2 0XQ

Tel: 0333 130 0549

Email: yas.patientrelations@nhs.net

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Update posted by gammaem43 (a relative)

I have emailed patient response and praised the ambulance transport girls with details

Regards

gammaem43

Response from Lesley Butterworth, Head of Nursing and Patient Experience, Yorkshire Ambulance Service NHS Trust 4 weeks ago
Lesley Butterworth
Head of Nursing and Patient Experience,
Yorkshire Ambulance Service NHS Trust
Submitted on 24/09/2025 at 09:29
Published on Care Opinion at 09:29


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Thank you we really appreciate it and will make sure the crew get your feedback.

kind regards

Lesley

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