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About: Royal Victoria Hospital / Accident & Emergency

(as the patient),

I am writing to raise a concern regarding the conduct of a doctor I was seen by during a recent visit to Royal Victoria Hospital A&E.

During my consultation, I explained that my injury had occurred in my workplace, a veterinary clinic. In response, the doctor made a dismissive comment, stating that vets are called veterinary surgeons, but they don't really do medicine and the only surgery they do is really just remove things. This statement, delivered in a matter-of-fact tone, left me feeling uncomfortable. I found the comment not only deeply unprofessional but also belittling.

After explaining how the injury occurred and describing my symptoms, the doctor asked - What are you looking to get out of coming to here today? This question, again delivered in a tone that felt indifferent, made me feel as though I was wasting their time. I left the consultation feeling dismissed and ashamed, and began to question whether I was right to have sought medical attention — despite being advised to do so by two family members, both medical doctors.

Following the consultation, I became visibly upset and began to cry while a nurse was taking my blood pressure. They noticed and was extremely kind and reassuring. However, I felt so embarrassed and belittled by my interaction with the doctor that I did not feel able to tell them what had happened. I felt diminished in a moment when I was already vulnerable coming to seek medical attention.

I understand how pressured A&E departments can be, and I deeply respect the work of NHS professionals. However, I believe that patients — regardless of their background or reason for attending — should be treated with empathy, respect, and professionalism. Unfortunately, this was not my experience during my consultation with the doctor.

I would appreciate it if this matter could be reviewed. I am not seeking punitive action, but I do hope this feedback is taken seriously and leads to greater awareness around communication and patient care.

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Response from John Barron, Service Manager, Service Manager, Urgent and Emergency Care, Belfast Health and Social Care Trust 2 days ago
John Barron
Service Manager, Service Manager, Urgent and Emergency Care,
Belfast Health and Social Care Trust
Submitted on 04/07/2025 at 13:40
Published on Care Opinion at 13:40


Dear virgosk37,

I’m John Barron, Service Manager for Urgent and Emergency Care. I’m very saddened to read about your experience during your recent visit. This certainly falls far short of the professional conduct we would expect our staff to consistently uphold.

If you could send a confidential message to patientExperience@belfasttrust.hscni.net with your name, DoB and date of attendance, I would like to investigate your experience in ED further and share your story as a learning point.

Kind regards

John

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