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"There should be a quicker option"

About: Maternity care / Maternity Out Patient Department Vale of Leven General Hospital / Community Maternity Unit Vale of Leven General Hospital / Maternity care

(as the patient),

I recently found out at my 11 week scan I had a missed miscarriage, the heartbeat had stopped at 8 weeks 2 days. This alone was a distressing time. The staff in the Vale of Leven maternity unit where great. Although I had to come back one week later for another scan due to 2 staff members having to confirm there was no heartbeat. I was then given the options on how to manage the miscarriage, which I picked mva. I was then told I'd have to wait a further 3 weeks to have this procedure done.

The waiting time from finding out your baby has had no heartbeat already for 2 weeks to then having to wait another 3 on top of that for the procedure is very distressing, heartbreaking and has affected me mentally as well. I feel there should be a quicker option for these procedures to be carried out a lot sooner.

For my mva procedure I had to attend the Queen Elizabeth hospital. The care and kindness shown from the 3 staff members in there was incredible. They made me feel so at ease during a very traumatic and sad time. Which made the procedure a lot more bearable and comfortable knowing they were there.

Changes have to be made so women are not suffering these long waiting times and can come to terms with the loss a lot sooner.

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Response from Nikki Harvey, Lead nurse -Gynaecology, Gynaecology, NHS Greater Glasgow and Clyde last month
Nikki Harvey
Lead nurse -Gynaecology, Gynaecology,
NHS Greater Glasgow and Clyde
Submitted on 02/06/2025 at 12:38
Published on Care Opinion at 12:38


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Dear Change592,

Thank you so much for taking the time to feedback at such a difficult and emotional time.

I am so sorry for your loss.

The below website has lots of support:

www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk

Thank you for praising the three gynaecology staff at QEUH for showing care and kindness. They will be delighted to be described as incredible. Also that they helped to make you feel at ease during a very traumatic and sad time will be reassuring that they are delivering person centred care.

If you contact my colleague Lead Midwife Laura Flynn on:

Laura.Flynn@nhs.scott

She would be happy to discuss further your issues regarding extended waiting times at what is a very upsetting time.

I wish you and your family a gentle recovery.

Kind regards,

Nikki

Nikki Harvey Lead Nurse Gynaecology/ACS.

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