Hello. I have visited the gynaecology/maternity outpatient department numerous times for both a miscarriage, and successful pregnancy (scans etc.). I felt extremely uncomfortable both times, from 2 different points of views. First, when I experienced a miscarriage, I was sat around multiple heavily pregnant women who were all so happy and excited to have updates/see their babies on scans. This of course made me feel much worse about the situation and I got very upset. Secondly, when I was the happy pregnant women who had just seen their baby for the first time, I remember sitting next to other women who were crying and upset. One person opened up to me and told me they were there because they'd have failed IVF treatment numerous times and was trying for the last time. Both experiences, I felt vulnerable, depressed and guilty for those dealing with infertility or loss.
"Experience in gynaecology/maternity outpatients"
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