My experience relates to the Gynaecology Department at the RD & E.
After discovering a cyst in a rather delicate area my GP referred me to the emergency gynaecology clinic but when I arrived the consultant was rather bemused as to why I had been sent as the cyst seemed to be healing itself.
However, before I saw the consultant I met with two people first and this is where my anxiety started;
First person - very sweet and informed me that they needed to ask a few questions to build my patient profile. Asked me my medical history, what medication I was taking etc which was fine but then it got rather bizarre. I was asked what contraception I was currently using, I'm 69 years of age and thought a very peculiar question to ask, I replied that I wasn't to which they further asked if I could remember what I used to use. They continued with further questions: what are your hobbies, do you have pets, who do you live with? I asked the relevance to these questions but did not get a reply instead I was asked what were my expectations from this appointment. I answered with 'resolution' to which they asked me to explain further. I would have thought it would be pretty obvious. I was feeling very stressed at this point.
Second person - after asking routine medical questions which I was happy to answer, They then went into the worst possible scenarios of what the problem could be. For example it may be cancerous. The nurse then went into acute, horrific details of the procedures and possible operation. I was ready to run out of the door, I was anxious, scared and worried out of my mind.
When i finally got to see the doctor as I said they were rather bemused as to why i had been sent as there was nothing at all to worry about, just a cyst that was drying up on it own accord.
Three and half hours I endured ridiculous and irrelevant and insensitive questioning, was put through the horror of listening to what may have to occur all for nothing. I am aghast at the reasoning behind both the purpose of those questions, the relevance and as to why you would tell someone the horrific nature of procedures that pre-empt the diagnosis.
"Unneccesary anxiety caused"
About: Royal Devon & Exeter Hospital (Wonford) / Gynaecology Royal Devon & Exeter Hospital (Wonford) Gynaecology EX2 5DW
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Update posted by avocetsp44 (the patient) 3 months ago