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Getting the help I need

Posted By millimeterry53

"Getting the help I need"

About: Parent Support Link

(as a service user),

I have a friend who has drained me with their alcohol consumption and it has affected me for so long. Drunken calls, needing money, arguments, needing bailed out of trouble and it goes on. I felt flat and exhausted. I called PSL to see if they would speak with me about how I could get my friend help but, after the call I realised I needed help and they gave me that.

I never looked back, I was seen within 1 day, it was confidential and I didn't have to worry about what I was saying, what a revelation. I found out about how my friend could also get helped and I gave them the info after getting the courage built up to speak to my friend. They know they have a problem and in time when they are ready, they now know how to get help.

But, for me I continue getting the support from my key worker and feeling better in myself and more confident to deal with what's happening.

Thanks you psl you are wonderful people who help me. 

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Response from Rhona Hawkins, Service Manager, Parent Support Link, Inclusion 4 months ago
Rhona Hawkins
Service Manager, Parent Support Link,
Inclusion

Submitted on 07/01/2025 at 13:05
Published on Care Opinion at 13:05

I'm so glad you reached out and found the support you needed. It's truly a powerful step to recognise that, while you're supporting your friend, your well-being matters too. It's amazing to hear that PSL was there for you right when you needed them, providing you with confidential care and guidance. It sounds like you've found not only the strength to help your friend, but also the courage to prioritise your own healing and growth.

Your story shows how important it is to ask for help when things feel overwhelming, and how taking that step can lead to positive changes for both you and your loved ones. I’m glad to hear you're continuing to feel better and more confident. Keep up the great work, and don’t hesitate to reach out if you ever need more support. You're doing amazing!

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