"A lack of respect, dignity and patience"

I recently gave birth at Altnagelvin. Throughout my antenatal care I was again so grateful to have been under the care of a doctor who always takes time with their patients and is genuinely so caring, a true gem.

During my stay on the antenatal ward for induction I again was expertly cared for by the midwifery team.

I was however examined by one of the  consultants during my time on the ward and I was appalled by their lack of respect for their patients in their examination. This was not my first rodeo, so as women we know some aspects of antenatal care are not that pleasant but are carried out with respect and dignity and patience. The doctor who examined me and three other members of staff on the ward did not possess any of these qualities.

The internal exam was undertaken with such force and speed that it was one of the most painful and disrespectful experiences I have had. I told the consultant that it was very painful and they did not respond or care about my discomfort. 

There is no need for forceful examination ever. A woman's body is going through enough, show it some respect!

All of the care I received from all other members of staff was outstanding but this behaviour should not be accepted or condoned.