My mother had been catheterized for many years when suddenly her bladder began to expel the catheter. After several failed attempts to fit a catheter that would stay (various sizes) the district nurses agreed to give mum a couple of weeks to heal from trauma to her urinary tract (caused by the repeated failed attempts)
Mum was then referred to the incontinence service for support as she is frequently "wetting herself" and is currently paying a large sum of money each week to supply herself with Tena lady pants (pull ups).
Mum does not work therefore this money is coming out of her limited income on benefits. Mum had been referred to Urology also for a scan of the bladder. This didn't highlight any issues.
Recently Mum received a letter from the incontinence service saying that due to short staffing they are unable to review her case or offer any help at this time.
This leaves my mother having to supply her own pull ups which impacts her life as she is using money that is needed to provide groceries and pay bills. This also negatively impacts her as she is unable to leave the house for extended times as she needs to be near a bathroom as she frequently requires personal care. For a grown woman to be made to feel as if she does not matter this is quite difficult for her family to witness. Mum feels as if she is a burden on the NHS and viewed as unimportant. This is damaging to her mental health and self esteem.
"My mother feels rejected by the service"
About: Antrim/Ballymena / Continence Service Antrim/Ballymena Continence Service Ballymena BT43 6DA
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