"Unrealistic "

Notts Talk is entirely geared towards attempting to resolve anxiety, depression and stress resulting from irrational worries. They’re entirely inadequate to handle symptoms resulting from rational problems. My partner is a nursing associate that works in the community based at the Park House facility. Over the years she has repeated lied to me, stolen from me and hidden mail (including my own) because of her continuing debt commitments. In 2021-2022 she stole £4500 of my savings, stole on average £1000 per month of my monthly salary and took out a £5000 loan which she directed the monthly payment to come out my account. I have a mobility car which she uses solely for her own use and not for any benefit of myself. She uses this car for her daily rounds, commute to and from work and her degree. I think of the 6k mile completed I’ve driven no more than 30 miles. I think she driving other than in accordance with the lease agreement which could mean she is potentially driving without insurance. The lease agreement is in my name and my responsibility to ensure the terms of the lease are met. She has previously stolen my credit card and withdrawn amounts of cash between £50-100 per day. My children currently being visited by Nottingham social services and the have various police visits and all because I’ve attempted to find out the truth about what debts and liabilities she has. On ever occasion I’m told various lies in order to cover up her debt commitments. I’ve been repeated told my behaviour is controlling because I’ve attempted to ensure the lease agreement is met, or that she budgets responsibly. Having been redundant, obviously my income has been slashed yet I have to continue to subsidise her transport and phone contract to the sum of £440 per month all with the threat of police intervention or social services because attempting to resolve this or take responsible action to reduce expenditure is classified as controlling and coercive. I called for help from Nottingham Social Services and email to my sons school trying ascertain his food and schools trip activities but was told by the police my single email might constitute ‘alarm, harassment and destress’ All these things are tangible and quantifiable which lead to excessive anxiety, stress and depression of which Notts Talking Therapies is completely unprepared to treat. My exit interview lead to the girl admitting and saying they couldn’t help and I was being discharged on the 15/07/2024 with letter stating ‘Thank you for attending therapy with Nottingham and Nottinghamshire Talking Therapies. We hope you found your sessions helpful, and we wish you all the best for the future’ Notts talking therapies is complete joke and the money should be redirected into proper therapies. I suspect this experiment was entirely for a select selection of staff to work from home and so very little.