I had a telephone appointment with a doctor who isn't my usual gp. A postnatal check after having a baby, and I am a first time mum. The call lasted only 5 minutes.
The doctor called, said their name and first question was 'did you have a normal birth?'. Not even how are you etc. This was followed by a bunch of other questions, a tick box exercise. Was very rushed.
The worst part was when i was asked or rather told "you dont have depression or anything do you?" What sort of questioning is this. If I did, I wouldn't just say "yes, I do have depression" I've been made to feel that it's not normal for me to feel depressed post birth. And the way I was asked just doesn't make me comfortable to say the truth, like it's a joke. Perhaps try asking a patient "how are you feeling after having a baby?" Maybe they'll open up and say how it's been.
My journey to having a baby at the hospital has been a very traumatic experience. The journey after has also been difficult. You'd think at the postnatal check appointment with my gp I'd be able to talk about it and get some support or pointed to the right direction.
Doctors doing postnatal appointments should take a bit more time and care when talking to their patients, not make them feel like a number, doing a tick box exercise. This appointment didn't feel like it was for me but rather for the doctor and fornthe doctor to be able to say "I've done it"
Also, these appointments should ideally be face to face and not over the phone.
"Awful Postnatal check appointment "
About: The Spitalfields Practice The Spitalfields Practice London E1 5PB
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