My mum had a fall on 3/4/24, mum pressed her buzzer after she had obviously been lying on the floor for some time once again as this isn't this first fall mum has had and she has never called for help because mum is diagnosed with Alzheimers and vascular dementia plus mum's mobility is very poor and she has a zimmer frame that time's she just leaves and we are always telling her she can't do without it but memory is really deteriorating as well.
On this occasion it was the paramedics that found mum on the bedroom floor because when the buzzer went through to the call centre they had the wrong phone number for me as I am the point of contact, the first I knew of what had happened was when mum's provider rang me to ask did I know the paramedics were with mum and that she had fallen and I was like no!
So I got to mum's straight away, the male paramedic was in the bathroom with mum as she was sat on the toilet and then when she done he followed her through into the Livingroom so they could do her op's now I informed them that mum had been diagnosed with Alzheimers and vascular dementia and with me giving them this information I thought they would have given mum a full check over but no they took her at her word when they asked her if she hurt herself or was sore. Problem is mum doesn't realise she hurts herself and feels pain and she did say to them that she didn't know what had happened. The paramedics were happy to let mum to stay at home because her op's were fine and I had told them that she had a recent TIA as well , the paramedics left.
We got mum her breakfast after the paramedics left and after that mum wanted to go out for a smoke and it was then that mum couldn't get up , she had absolutely no use of her legs so had to get her into her wheelchair to take her out for her smoke. At was at this point that mum was coming out with things , she was asking about my late partner why she hadn't heard from him I said mum he's been dead nearly 3 years she was mortified.
My daughter in law and I took mum to the shower which was a really hard job because of her not being able to stand/walk and mum not understanding instruction from us but then mum said to us the side of her head was sore and we asked were and she put her hand up and touched the left side and she had a wee bump so mum obviously banged her head of the bedside locker when she fell and I ask her what happened and she said she had got out of bed and was standing and her legs just went from under her.
My daughter in law had to get into the shower with mum as mum had to sit on the seat on the shower, so got her showered and dressed and then got mum into the riser chair in the livingroom, mum started to deteriorate she was showing signs of a TIA again and the speeches were getting slurred. My oldest son came in and he looked at her and went to mum look at her she's took something, look at her face I said I know because the speeches are away too. Mum's carer came in when I was on the phone again to the ambulance service and even she said she could she the droop to one said of her face and I said yeah and her speeches are away too.
It took the ambulance about 45 minutes to get here and it was the same crew that had seen mum from the fall in the morning, I told them about the droop, speeches and mum and that their was a bump on the left side of her head from the fall she'd had earlier so they decided to take mum to the South West Acute Hospital ED they said she would be seen sooner there.
I didn't get up the road to the hospital till 6pm and I was annoyed that mum was sat in a wheelchair in the corridor in the ED and had , had a CT scan but that was it the handover information that the paramedics gave the ED staff wasn't given right they said mum was they're as a result of a fall I told them that's not why I phoned for the ambulance so I gave them the full story from what had happened.
Mum wasn't seen by a doctor in the ED till nearly 9pm were he took bloods and was waiting on the results of the CT, mum was left in the corridor again now mum is a type 2 diabetic and hadn't had anything to eat or drink all day and hadn't been offered anything. Mum was completely delirious and its a good job I was with her because she kept trying to get up out of the wheelchair and if I hadn't of been there she would have fell on her face , as the staff were run of their feet.
Mum was then called for an x-ray and then a while after the doctor came and said the x-ray showed a chest infection and she needed fluids and IV antibiotics, they got mum a bed which was in front of one of the nurses stations. Mum stayed there till Friday and they discharged her in the evening even though I told them not to as she's a risk. Mum's social worker suspended her care package as well but they still sent her home in a taxi and the taxi man gave off that she was confused, didn't know where she was and hadn't a clue.
"Swah ED , social worker and ambulance crew"
About: Northern Ireland Ambulance Service / Emergency ambulance response Northern Ireland Ambulance Service Emergency ambulance response Belfast BT8 8SG Older People’s Services / Social Worker for older people Older People’s Services Social Worker for older people Londonderry BT47 6WH South West Acute Hospital / Emergency Care and Medicine Services South West Acute Hospital Emergency Care and Medicine Services Enniskillen BT74 6DN
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