Was at A&E with my son who is not able to drive. Was referred by GP for sepsis due to infection in finger which was not responding to antibiotics - he also had headache, stiffness of neck , fever and photophobia. Had some indication of cerebral irritation. All signs of sepsis.
On arrival my daughter-in-law and myself were not allowed to accompany him into examination room, which is understandable, but we were not allowed to even wait in waiting area of A&E. We were instructed to wait outside.
After several hours' wait, when we had enquired about his condition x2, we were then labelled as aggressive, although we had only asked politely on an update on his care. Eventually we were told he was unable to be treated at that hospital and being transferred to another acute hospital. I was asked if I could drive him there by reception staff.
We were given no paperwork and when I asked to speak to someone about where we were to go was spoken to by a nurse who I found very aggressive, I feel the nurse verbally attacked me before I even opened my mouth and told me a man in his 40s should not need his mother there with him. My son was very ill and confused with signs of sepsis. I asked the nurse to kindly lower their voice and stop shouting at me and please listen to what I was asking them, but they continued to abuse me. At no time did I raise my voice to them or be abusive to them.
At that point the nurse's manager interrupted them and they turned their back and stormed off. I did not make a complaint but informed the manager of the situation and asked for the information. The manager then proceeded to explain that the nurse was upset and stated that my son had been aggressive, which was not the case. He had cerebral irritation. Which is a sign of sepsis.
Although I did not have time to pursue this matter further as my son needed treatment, I would suggest that the staff have a sepsis refresher course.
At Wishaw, he collapsed as we went in the door and was then provided with a wheelchair but we still had quite a lengthy wait in that waiting room where he was slumped in the chair until he was seen. I know that you were and are busy, but I feel this is not really acceptable.
This incident happened 2 years ago but it has made us very wary of attending the hospital for any reason.
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About: University Hospital Monklands / Emergency Department University Hospital Monklands Emergency Department ML6 0JS University Hospital Wishaw / Emergency Department University Hospital Wishaw Emergency Department ML2 0DP
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