My brother was admitted to Queen Elizabeth University Hospital at the end of December 2022. In early January 2023 he had an amputation to above his knee. A few weeks later I was informed that rehab was not progressing and due to the level of care he needed he would need to go into a care home. My brother was informed of this.
Throughout his 3 weeks I was told he was in low mood, withdrawn, I asked if he could be given a little more time but this was not an option. A couple of days later, I was informed that my brother was now refusing food, drink and medication. I visited him but he passed away very soon after.
I feel that due to his mental health he should have had counselling and when informed about the care home I should have been present. He obviously decided to end his life as to him it wasn't worth living. I thought hospitals considered mental health as well as the physical side and feel he was let down. I am still in shock at having lost my brother in such a way. I can only consider this suicide, as he really took his own life.
The nurse in the ICU was very helpful and caring as was the nurse in ward 11a.
I feel a counsellor could have spent time with him to see why he was in a bad place mentally to consider ending his life in this way. Also perhaps it can take longer than 3 weeks for someone who is trying to cope with the shock of losing his leg.
"Due to his mental health he should have had counselling"
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