My sister died from Mesothelioma in St Luke's Hospice Kenton London in June 2018. She lived with the diagnosis of cancer for 5 years and had a good quality of life until the last year when pain became a real issue.
She had always been scared of dying and St Luke's was where our mum died so it was wonderful for her to have respite and pain control and be really poorly but able to go home again. She trusted all the staff and felt safe there. All the family did. So going in the 2nd time was not so scary but sadly she did not arrive home. She had excellent care, therapies, kindness, empathy and medical treatment.
After being in a bubble of care and feeling safe, it is hard to leave and return to 'normal' life. Shock sets in, there is no purpose. It could be helpful to arrange a meeting the day after for relatives to return for tea, cake, support from staff and volunteers
"She trusted all the staff and felt safe there"
About: St Lukes Hospice St Lukes Hospice Harrow HA3 0YG
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