"Termination after 13 weeks. Put to sleep"

About: Bpas (merseyside Clinic)

Today I visited the Liverpool BPAS clinic.

After reading many horror stories on the Internet and some rather comforting ones I was unsure what to expect and turned up so nervous and frightened to what I was about to encounter.

I was receiving the vacuum termination at 13 weeks pregnancy. I had been told different things and read different things.

I had to wait two hours before going into surgery to take the suitable tablets and for them to kick in. During this two hours I had worked myself up into a right state and when I was called I couldn't stop myself crying. The nurse was unbelievable comforting. Held my hand hugged me. Made me laugh and made me feel so at ease. I couldn't be more thankful. I was shortly called in and put to sleep. Half an hour later I woke up in absolutely no pain what so ever. A bit of blood but nothing to be alarmed about. I was in a room with a number of other women and I have read that it's like a conveyor belt and it is in terms of timing but the staff are so lovely and made every individual feel looked after. I got home an hour after my operation. My bleeding has gone right down - no pain still. It couldn't have been better in those awful circumstances. I hope whoever is reading this eases there mind a bit as I had read some awful things online and it couldn't have been further from the truth. The only thing I would recommend is to bring a night dress I brought pyjamas and they will probably get dirty during the operation so nothing you'd spend money on. And come in your comfiest clothes as there is a lot of waiting around before the operation and maybe a book or ipad as some form of entertainment to take your mind of things. Thankyou to all the lovely staff

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Response from Bpas (merseyside Clinic)

Thank you for taking the time to post your comments. There are a mix of emotions felt when arriving at a clinic, so I am sure that your shared experience will be helpful to other women.

Your kind feedback which will be passed on to the relevant BPAS staff. Kind regards, Pam Field, BPAS Client Engagement Manager (email: clientservices@bpas.org).

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