This was an absolutely horrendous experience for my partner, he was already confused and only just recovering from a massive seizure leaving him still in the postictal stage and still in a very confused and forgetful state. A scan at A&E following the seizure revealed a gbm4 which was later debulked during a successful craniotomy and still at recovery stage with limited left-sided movement.
So far so good! No unexpected problems from surgery, his care has been impeccable and totally patient centred, until it was time for his MRI scan, where a so-called health care professional proceeded to ask my dazed and confused most obviously a man if there's a chance he could be pregnant. He's been on high dose steroids which make him so hungry, he eats more than before, so his tummy is unusually rotund (also on anti seizure medications and strong pain relief).
This totally inappropriate and unnecessary question made him extremely confused and looking down at his belly, and he asked me if they were taking the piss. Brain cancer patients can lose their filter and have dramatic mood swings especially in stressful situations.
I don't appreciate the stress this put him under for an already extremely vulnerable patient, totally disregarding his needs, the opposite to the patient centred care he'd previously received.
"Asking vulnerable men if they are pregnant"
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