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"Child not feeding and issues with gaining weight"

About: Children & younger people's services / Infant Feeding Service

(as a parent/guardian),

I have been having issues with my child's weight for a long time since being diagnosed with a milk allergy. My health visitor came to visit at one point as I phoned up worried about their weight due to taking only 1oz per feed at 3 months old - their weight gain was only 6oz in 3 weeks.  I had also been tearful most days. I was advised to use self weigh and let them know, which I did.

I phoned the call centre and they left a message to say my child had only gained 2oz in a week. The centre informed me that I would get a call back  that day or the next day. That never happened, so I continued to weigh them weekly. Then we hit more issues around feeds, again no support from GP.  It must have been every week as taking 15oz milk at 5 1/2 months old.  They wouldn’t change milk even though my child's skin is still flaring up.

I asked for a dietician referral which wasn't going to be until 8th February which I feel is ridiculous! I paid for a private dietician who asked the GP to prescribe amino acid milk. My child has not been feeding well for 3 weeks has been weighed by paediatricians at an appointment and has gained 9oz in 3 weeks. I’m just deflated by lack of support especially when I've been suffering with my own mental health and even discussed this several times with the health visitor team.

I had to ask for medication from the GP. Myself and my child have been let down.  If it wasn’t for the support from my paediatrician I feel like I would have lost it by now. I think when the health visitor team get messages through System One regarding patients they need to respond in 24 hours and not ignore the 4 messages left by the call centre team. Also if they haven’t replied why aren’t other professionals above them making sure these messages are replied to… it’s called team work.

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Responses

Response from Theresa Drozdowska, Infant Feeding Lead, Children, Families and Specialist Services, Community Health Services 2 years ago
Theresa Drozdowska
Infant Feeding Lead, Children, Families and Specialist Services,
Community Health Services
Submitted on 17/01/2022 at 13:29
Published on Care Opinion at 15:39


Hello Kitrx87,

I am so sorry for your experience and the struggle you have experienced regarding your child’s slow weight gain and lack of support. Our Infant Feeding team is based within the Healthy Family team service and we offer support to all mothers and babies for any feeding issues and in particular slow weight gain issues. We see mums face to face in our clinic, and I am sorry you didn’t receive the care you required. I can’t see from your feedback whether you were offered referral to our Specialist Breastfeeding team. If you would like the Infant Feeding Lead for Bassetlaw to speak with you to offer you further support, please ring Alison on: 07896579234 Tuesdays to Thursdays 9am - 4.30pm.

Theresa, Infant Feeding Lead, Nottinghamshire Healthcare NHS Trust

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Response from Sherrel Dudley, General Manager, Children and Young People (0-19 Services), Community Health Services 2 years ago
Sherrel Dudley
General Manager, Children and Young People (0-19 Services),
Community Health Services
Submitted on 24/01/2022 at 10:57
Published on Care Opinion at 10:57


Dear Kitrx87,

I'm so sorry you feel let down by our service and I would really value a conversation with you to discuss your experience in more detail. If you would be happy to contact me, my number is 07850918871.

Kindest regards

Sherrel Dudley,

General Manager, Nottinghamshire Healthcare NHS Trust

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