"No person centred care"

So after receiving a diagnosis of EUPD, anxiety and adjustment disorder around 8 weeks ago, It was suggested that I was to be assigned a CPN (which hasn't been done) and also to progress on to the treatment pathway for PD. 

After receiving a poorly worded guide regarding the pathway I seen a doctor for three sessions for "core treatment" which covered everything I was already doing/already had in place regarding safety. After the three appointments I was told that that the doctor felt I wasn't opened minded regarding trying new skills even though skills that were being suggested was things I already use and because I said for coping skills there needs to a connection/relevance with the skills so I can put it into place. 

I was also told that skills discussed are evidence based and that evidence shows they work so I must not be doing it correctly. I highlighted the point that its all fine addressing feelings and what to do when they arise but also I need to be able to speak about the trauma/past experences while going through different skills for coping and stabilisation and I was told bluntly that isn't something that's offered and that the NHS is not a therapy service even though I wasn't asking for therapy.

This linked onto the other point that I raised that the "pathway" comes across as more of a check list rather than a guide for supporting people with EUPD at no point did I feel that the care was person centred I felt the approach was from the point of this is what the pathway says and if its not there we don't cover it.

I am now just feel left to fend for myself, where is the person centred care approach? yet again someone else who the mental health service has refused to help!!