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"Anxiety and Uncertainty about the future"

About: Hounslow IAPT

(as the patient),

I was originally referred by my GP and was seen by Monisha.  I've been dealing with anxiety my whole life and coming from an Asian background its almost still seen as a stigma/strange behavior that 'isn't real', especially being an Asian man it's not something that is easy to talk about so it took me some time to get here.

As you can imagine I was a little nervous about this whole IAPT treatment but Monisha has helped me so much, it's actually unreal how far she has helped me come. I initially went in with the mindset that I'd walk in and a few sessions later I'd walk out anxiety free. Monisha achieved this goal but it took a lot longer than a few sessions, this is because she taught me skills and methods to reprogram my thinking so I could deal with anxiety provoking situations. My anxiety was so bad that I developed alopecia from overthinking things and stress. Monisha broke everything down into baby steps for me, challenged me and my thinking so that she doesn't give me the answers but makes me think in order for me to learn properly and use these skills throughout my life. As mentioned I was suffering from alopecia due to overthinking/stress, towards the end of my sessions I was planning a my wedding and had a lot of family stress going on, a lot worse than the my alopecia time but I handled it so much better and that is all down to the help and support of Monisha.  

She helped me understand the difference between hypothetical situations and current situations I had in my head and helped me deal with my tolerance to uncertainty.  Monisha seems to honestly love her job and does this because she actually cares and not because she just gets paid. She goes the extra mile and I cannot thank her enough for all the support, I don't  know her as a person outside of our treatment but I can honestly say from the time I spent with her, she's someone I really respect and admire. Very professional and for those who suffer from anxiety will know that if someone can help you out of a dark situation like that you see them very highly.  Thank you Monisha! I honestly wish you nothing but success and pray for your happiness in your life as you've helped me more than you'll ever know. Thank you so much!! May God bless you!

Before I wouldn't even talk about my issues, not even to my missus, but now I'm happy to talk about it online and to others suffering, we all need help sometimes. The sessions can be sometimes intense but one thing I would say is, give it time and do your homework! Trust me, you'll come out feeling so much better, stick with it till the end and don't give up (this is coming from someone who isn't very patient). I would 100% recommended Hounslow IAPT. Thanks Hounslow IAPT and especially to you Monisha.

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Response from Sara Kerry, Patient Experience Coordinator, Central Governance Team, West London NHS Trust 4 years ago
Sara Kerry
Patient Experience Coordinator, Central Governance Team,
West London NHS Trust
Submitted on 09/09/2019 at 14:44
Published on Care Opinion at 14:44


Dear Yorkshireman

What a lovely story to read. Thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience of using Hounslow IAPT, I will make sure Monisha also sees this.

I am aware that it can be very difficult and by sharing your story this will help others seek the treatment they need.

We have some wonderful staff working at the Trust and its great to hear all about them and the difference they are making in peoples lives.

Thank you again for sharing

Best wishes

Sara Kerry

Patient experience Coordinator

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Response from Sara Kerry, Patient Experience Coordinator, Central Governance Team, West London NHS Trust 4 years ago
Sara Kerry
Patient Experience Coordinator, Central Governance Team,
West London NHS Trust
Submitted on 13/09/2019 at 07:44
Published on Care Opinion at 07:44


Dear Yorkshireman

Thank you for your very thoughtful and detailed feedback.

You have given such a wonderful account of your therapy journey and the evidence based interventions that have made a profound difference to our life. I am so glad you had the courage to seek therapy and share our experience with others, particularly closest to you.

We are very happy to hear that you developed such a great therapeutic relationship with Monisha and she created a safe space for you to benefit from therapy.

Thank you for your words of encouragement for others; it really makes a difference to others!

We wish you all the best for the future.

Annabelle

Joint Clinical Lead

Hounslow IAPT

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