As it’s infant loss awareness week I felt I had to write this.
A year ago I suffered cramps and phoned NHS 24. I explained I was only a few weeks pregnant and I was suffering cramps on one side and had started to bleed. They advised me to go to A and E to rule out ectopic pregnancy.
I went with my husband scared I was miscarrying. I wish I never went to A and E. I was seen by a male nurse who didn’t show any empathy and I felt like I was keeping him from blethering with his colleagues. He then ask for a urine sample and sent to a toilet at the bottom of the corridor.
At this point the cramps were bad and went to get a sample to find the bleeding was worse. The worst part was having to carry my urine sample down the corridor in tears. I couldn’t believe the lack of privacy or compassion at this point.
I was then told I was being transferred to the maternity unit. This was a shambles. I was in a wheelchair and was being pushed all over the hospital as it wasn’t known where I was going. The person transporting me was trying to take me to maternity inpatients. After been wheeled around she found out it was outpatients I was to go to. I sat there in pain and fear.
I eventually got to the maternity outpatients and couldn’t have asked for better care. I was told I should never of been told to go to a and e. I did miscarry and luckily enough I now have a healthy baby. I still can’t get over the treatment I received in A and E.
The maternity staff are a credit to the NHS. I was also admitted this year to the combined assessment unit and yet again the staff were a credit. I just hope no other woman had to go through what I did in A and E and get the right advice to go straight to maternity.
"Mixed care experiences during miscarriage"
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