I was referred for CBT by my dentist at Beckenham Beacon because I have a dental phobia brought on by a traumatic event caused by poor and painful treatment by a dentist in the past.
The 1st communication I had from the team was in the form of a generic letter with a form to fill in and I was given a time when I would have a telephone interview. This letter was sent out 3 weeks prior to the arranged call and had a form I had to fill in which included questions such as (please note that these are not verbatim):
- have you tried to harm yourself in the past
- are you thinking of harming your self
- are you suicidal
These questions horrified me for 2 reasons:
1. I was only being referred for CBT due to a dental phobia not for an illness such as manic depression (or similar)
2. If I had been on the brink due to manic depression (or similar) then I feel mentioning these things could have actually promoted these thoughts in my head
I subsequently had the phone interview in which I explained that this was for CBT due to a dental phobia but I still had to verbally confirm that I was not seeing to commit suicide etc before the therapist on the phone would even discuss anything with me
I know that the department want to keep costs to a minimum and not to add extra work, but I really feel strongly that cases such as mine should not be treated in the same manner as those who have a genuine mental illness and who need nurturing and counselling of a very different type to what I need. I also think that they should also be treated with kid gloves and ideas of suicide should not be referenced in a generic letter.
I have subsequently just received a letter from 'Talk together, Bromley' in which they have apologised for the delay in sorting out my treatment and yet again, they have said '.........if you are feeling worse and feel that you are at risk, then please contact the following:' and have provided details of people such as the Samaritans
I have decided not to proceed with this treatment as, based on what I have experienced so far (both written and over the phone) I feel I will not benefit in any way, shape or form from it as they seem determined to make me feel that I have something more sinister than a phobia caused by an incompetent dentist who tried to extract a tooth without proper anaesthesia
You have asked for my opinion..........so here it is!!
"Referral for CBT due to dental phobia"
About: Bromley Healthcare / Talk together Bromley (IAPT) Bromley Healthcare Talk together Bromley (IAPT) BR2 7EH
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